OrgonomyMail-List@yahoogroups.com Sex Education I'm glad that 'sex education' values & benefits are up for discussing & definition now. I began self sex-education in hi school, in college & teaching health. What a joke, a scam & lies about how & why humans have sex, not make love! Most 'mod sex education' omits our natural feeeling & bonding needs with mother & father in first moments & months of nursing. Also being in the family bed, carrying-baby, massaging & bathing with baby; as bonding is gently shifted to mother nature contacts & other chilren. But this is rare, a taboo-secret & revolutionary in civilized world. I know 100s of hippy parents that do it. However parents own unatural bonding may interfear with intimacy or later loving kids needs. So lets ask how modern 'sex education' recognizes mother natures instincts & needs for bonding from birth & how those needs are working or hidding now? Infant bonding patterns deeply effect a kids desires for sex, intimacy, touching & experimenting with bodies, that Reich & others found in first puberty about 5-7 yrs. Then it fades if curiosity is satisfied & testing is allowed to learn how different bodies work then free to play with?! But the hangover of "sex is bad anywhere" before or beyond marriage plagues most western adults & especially in schools, churches, officials, etc. Some natural sex ed ways are to allow kids touching & massaging each other for fun, learning & pleasure, if the adults are touching peacefully. If adults use touch to control, hurt or reward kids, it will stress & stop the relaxed sharing that leads to gentle sexpirimenting by honest consent with open self awareness. What are their needs, goals & emotions about sex ed teachers & students, at home or school? How does home-education from birth effect a childs ability to touch self & others. Reich also found that masturbating is natural, but compulsive if child not allowed to or punished for touching self or others. Even spanking can be sexual/pelvic abuse, lasting decades into adulthood, we're found & been healing for years to be relaxed, sensual & sexual loving people. We also find that circumcision causes great stress in boys whose penis foreskin was cut off, breaking babies trust of mother & medical people, no matter what good reasons they say, ignoring its bad pain?!!>? They denying it causes long deep crying, doubt & fear of adults?! The natural revolution in organic parenting is needed at home, long before schooling faces sex & love needs & problems to solve, without parents direct contact?! is nearly impossible. Loving babies is passed on thru generations of intimate bonding. See "The Continuum Concept" by Jean Leidloff '77, a radical story of Amazon indians who carry their babies 'in-arms' 2-3+ years into peaceful childhood of natural linstincts & loving learning while playing together, to share healthy community life. Baby massage immediate bonding with baby begins natural healthy sex education after a natural birth. Anytime after that body trusting games & gentle massage are great ways to make loving- contact easy & simple for trusting our bodies. We know kids have needs, emotions & fears about these touching issues. so how sensitive are we to work with them opening up with deep respect for learning new ways to touch, play & dance in joy?! happy to share trusting naturaloving now~! micheal sunanda for Childrens liberation get a free copy of "Kids Lib News" zine "Family Instincts" best of 7 yrs pub. by Oness press, Oregon & Hawaii