TRUSTING KIDS TO COMMUNIATE - communal skills

of present emotions, needs, instincts & love to grow

1. LISTENING CLOSELY - for meaning of words & actions,

body language, goals, fears, needs & purposes now

2. RESPECTING OUR experience, abilities & potentials of

each one herenow growing, over ideas/bias, fears, goals.

3. ADMITTING MISTAKES - needs, fears & limits, to learn & grow beyond problems, old judgements & fears, to be joy

4. LEARNING TOGETHER - sharing space, feelings & touch,

now making & trusting agreements to become/cooperate

5. PARAPHRASING a message, repeating it back for clarity

agreement on points, direction, meaning, values, goals

6. ASKING & ANSWERING QUESTIONs fairly, open & honestly listening to answers to our ???s, giving options

7, OFFERING CREATIVE CHOICES they can choose self pacing without demanding responce from us giving help

8. SHARING DECISIONS - deciding & making plans now together now in democratic process of social equalilty,

9. GROWING NATURALLY - more simply clear & creative, soft & aware, flowing & balancing within wholenergy

10. BEING PRESENT & flexible in focus of attention here now, in past or future to come, from experience, goals,

11. BEING RESPONSIBLE for self causes & effects, now giving & getting, positive & negative effects in ecohealth

12. RELAXING & ENJOYING lifenergy, playing & working in open harmony with others, growing free love influences

NATURAL WAYS TO BE HERE NOW IN FLOW OF ENERGY

1. WAKING UP in bed slowly feeling body, recalling dreams, listening to space, aiming to ground, center & grow

2. STRECHING & BREATHING - to relax or rise to fill needs herenow, getting ready to work-play, join, create & love

3. WATERING BODY - a splash or dip awake on face, hands, feet, head, ears, etc, stimulates energy flows for balance

4. Drinking PURE WATER & HERB TEAS or coconut milk - for break before eating, exersizing work or play, poopee

5. Making SOUNDS - singing, chanting, laffing, crying, moaning, yelping, sharing dreams, needs, fears, emotion

6. Go walking or do yoga, outside in nature if possible, hang upside-down, climb a tree, barefoot/roll in wet grass fun.

7. Do house/home work, cleaning, creating, clearing emotions, vibrations up doing chores to complete from before or ??

8. NATURE TRIPS - do some plant/gardening or animal loving care hauling water, gathering foods, wood, toys,

9. Take a long hot bath or shower, sit or lay in hot sun or sauna, with cool/cold rinse afterwords to raise energy

10. Go visit a friend, nature or children on bike or footravel, jogging breathing consciously in & out in rhythm to move

11. Eat whole foods, some raw, natural & organic food (dry combining to balance yin/yang, acid/base, hot/cold, wet

12. MAKING LOVE, hugging, cuddling, relaxing together, having flowing sex in bed or water, on ground or hamock

13. Lite A CANDLE OR FIRE to heat up, meditate, read or ??

14. CLEANing UP BODY - hands, feet, head, MOUTH, teeth

15. WASHING CLOTHES, BEDDING, dishes & animals by hand, & air & sunshine drying them, or near wood heat

16. TELLING STORIES - for sharing experience, making it up

17. BEING HONEST - Telling the truth more than ego praise, bias or defending ones position, admit errors to grow & ?

18. MAKING HOME NEST - creating soft & natural, 2 share practical & functional creative, healing & loving spaces

19. RESEARCHING/study - what you need to learn & test abililties to grow skills, find local & cosmic resources of it

20. DOING ART & crafts: voicing, writing, painting, dancing, sculpting, clay, pottery, clothes & food making, drama! gardening, fun, wood-working, creating games, poems, rituals, beauty spontaneous or by plan/design to create; or challenging limits, dare taking risks in adventures of?

21. NATURAL SELF HEALING - of bodymind stresses, old karma or imbalances, by water & rest cure, plaYoga & breathing, love, herbs & fasting, chinese medicine, deep shamanic for clearing up causes & effects of negative fears & habits of excess or lack of trust & resouces now