PARENTING FOR PEACE AT HOME & OUT

PEACE is voluntary natural or enforced under threats of control

fighting is OK, if its fair, we both choose to be in a battle

to learn & grow, have peace, be equal, create play & find wholes

Do you listen closely to meaning, feelings, needs, fears & goals?

in a message of words tone, or in body postures & signals?

We get together to share energy, ideas, food, drinks & game roles

that we trust & agree with, both being honest & responsible

Are we aiming for fair equality & understanding deeply?
or struggling to be right, in top, make wrong or blaming?

Kids need to help themselves, trust us & cooperate

choosing when to learn, eat, rest, sleep, play, touch & help out

We offer them choices from what’s around the space we inhabit

they learn to decide to fill needs now & plan to go, eat or wait

we make up hard or flexible rules, admit breaking them honest.

Like asking questions of how to do something new handicraft.

if open to growing skills in present moments of becoming alert.

We talk openly with family, "I am feeling........now........because

something is rising inside or came, I think or re-act on purpose or?

Do you talk at or with kids about needs, decisions & food?

asking questions, open minded listening to answers & respond?

Do you talk to yourself aloud? so we can hear? or in the head?

in dialog with parts to find or create, feel or let go of the dread?

Use any put-downs at home, like was used against your head?

modeling from parents training & peers both good & bad?

do you choose now? or just react ina reflex to understand?

or admit mistakes to learn beyond self control stress in binds

when insecure, unclear unmet needs to be whole, better or glad?

Do you ask for attention, choices, needs or help herenow?

or proud of mature kids, like you want them to be model like you?

or growing up deciding what needs be & helping freely & true!

able to talk openly & debate indecision to agreeing to do or not?

sharing goals & aims & purposes & interest & desires & intents?

laff & play on the ground & floor & bed & clean it up in peace?

We need nature daily more than electricity to power habits!

Are your kids property you fear others will neglect not like you?

or so relaxing after playing, sharing after dreaming & food fixing?

we agree on & when to eat, apart or sharing ina circle of meeting.

How much joy & healing do you share with kids daily blending

our energy together, leading & following instincts instantly being

peace iso honest it like surprises in flexible roles we’re learning.