KIDS ECO-SURVIVAL SKILLS

DRAG A STICK on the ground, making a trail to base

Save clothe, paper & plastic Bags to reuse & recycle

Pile up rocks, or make a tripod ata crossing of trails

Put bag or cloth on feet over socks to keep warm/dry

Use large bag/cloth, like pancho for warming body

Sleep with warm cap on head in winter nites, breathe

cool air, do breath ofire heats body we rub warm

Dig a cave in snow ina blizzard to be in shelter

Warm body by massaging belly & feet with hands

do acupressure points, yoga & exersize to heat up

Mammels can smell, taste & hear far better than see far

Yell loud at animals that startle or scare you, breathe deep

to release stress, be still or wave clothes or big sticks

Sun sets 1 hr after 1 hand above horizon, 2 hands=2 hrs.

ASKING KIDS ???s of creative learning do-it-yourself

FIELDS of focus

Food- needing, wanting, buying, fixing, storing, cooking, eating, combining, cleaning, health, sharing, drinking,composting?

Clothes - buying/choosing, wearing, cleaning, sharing, storing?

Health - foodiet, skin, pure water, sunshine, fresh-air, emotions?

elimination, exersize, stress clearing, conflict resolving?

Body hair, smell, cleaning, clothes, posture, expression, actions?

School/home work - attending, doing/dompleting assignments?,

independent learning, projects, fun, socializing, sports, etc?

$$money - allowance, earning, saving, spending, sharing, trading?

Time - being in/on time, late, early, hurry, patient, anxious, afraid?

Emotions -feelings hurt, pain, sick, hot/fever, aches, fear, love, hate, free, tired, excited, stuffed, sad, mad, glad, joy, needy, shy, lost happy, inspired, curious, denying, sexual, envy, hungry, poor?

Transpo - moving, walking, running, biking, caring, bus, trains, etc?

Media - buying, using, storing, fixing, supplying trading, trashing?

TV, radio, stereo, computer, games, toys, tools, fahsion, etc?

Cooperating - trust building, honest sharing, contact connecting,?

making & keeping agreements, social-equalilty & bias, house

work & chores, conflict solving, peacemaking, intimate friends?

Sleeping = where, when, how long, wearing what, with who, etc.?

???s for Parenting Kids cooperatively here now

NEED TO BELONG - how strong is your bonding with parents &

children now connecting from prebirth in body feelings & ESP

Birth Order - what order were you born & raised with siblings?

What roles did you play in family & any role playing now?

Star/loser, bully/victim, boss/servant, cop/robber/rebel, etc.

Family Zodiac - do you know your Sun/moon/planet syns of astro- Universe, from natal birth chart=karma map to potentials love

causes & effects, needs & responces, naturally & socially with?

Playing - how do you play, have fun & enjoy your space with kids?

playing any of the roles we learned at home or where/when?

Giving Options - how many decisions/choices & needs do you give to kids/day, to decide what they think, feel, need, do & let go of?

Making choices - deciding how & when to, drink, rest, play, create, eat, work, sleep, arise, share, study, learn, earn, spend, groom

Asking ???s - how many time/day do you ask kids/parents, to learn answers, make contact, get results, set-limits, clear feelings, open hearts, get agreements, build-trust, be happy & cooperate

PRINCIPLES OF COOPERATIVE PARENTING HERENOW

Expanded from Adler, Dreikurs, Gordens P.E.T & Gestalt

NATURAL CONSEQUENCES - the cosmic law of causes & effects that connect our aims & results, needs & actions together now NEED TO BELONG - in family group, intimate bonding together now sharing openly what we need, sense, love, fear, hate, etc.

SOCIAL EQUALITY - giving mutual-respect to family members real

sharing decisions, plans, spaces, experience, needs, privacy, bias

FAULTY GOALS - of problems, conflicts, hurts, depression & defeat

*1 Attention seeking - of praise, kprizes, $$, honor, approval, etc

*2 Power struggles for control by 'superiour over others in drama of domination & submission games of conflict real or fantasy.

*3 Revenge attacks - to hurt someone mad at, crime to get even!

*4 Defeat, depression & denial of reality, responsibililty & needs

by victim, loser, minor, youngest, weakest, fearidden, suffers.

PSYCHIC FEELINGS - our direct connection to self, family & whole

universe, in nature, dreaming, spirit, visions, ESP, from pre- birth thru child & adulthood, feelings, aging & completing it

ACTIVE LISTENING - the quality of openly asking & sensing what others are sharing, saying,meaning, feeling, needing here now

TESTING LIMITS, AGREEMENTS, POTENTIALS & RULES - by

Anyone in group contact, to relie on or expand the horizons.

OPEN HONESTY - shared quality of present direct contact openly

expressing feelings, fears, needs, dreams, stress to prevent or

solve with truth, trust & cooperating more with less effort now

BALANCING DYNAMICS of freedom & responsibility here now;

past, present & future focusing, democratic & private choices;

courage & fear, trust & hate; giving & taking, breaking/messing cleaning/fixing, winning & loosing; pairing & solo; rules & agreeing work & play in fair & firm choosing creative options .

ENCOURAGING - peace, love, trust, cooperating, creating joy by

role modeling, setting clear examples, sharing self equally, etc?

Redirecting negative behavior, reflecting feelings clearly now

LEARNING - new patterns of energy sources, channels & results now thru curiosity, making/admitting mistakes, needing &

getting information, healing, love, inspiration & cooperation.