TRUSTING KIDS TO COMMUNIATE - communal skills

of present emotions, needs, instincts & love to grow

1. LISTENING CLOSELY - for meaning of words & actions,

body language, goals, fears, needs & purposes now.

2. RESPECTING OUR experience, abilities & potentials of all

herenow growing; over ideas/bias, fears & faulty goals.

3. ADMITTING MISTAKES - needs, fears & limits, to learn & grow beyond problems, old judgements & fears, to evolve j

4. LEARNING TOGETHER - sharing space, feelings & touching now making & trusting agreements to cooperate

5. PARAPHRASING a message, repeating it back for clarity &or

agreement on points, direction, meaning, values, goals

6. ASKING & ANSWERING QUESTIONs fairly, open & honestly listening to answers to our ???s, giving options &

7, OFFERING CREATIVE CHOICES they can choose self pacing without demanding responce from us giving help

8. SHARING DECISIONS - deciding & making plans together now in democratic process of social equalilty, expressing

9. GROWING NATURALLY - more simply clear & creative, soft & aware, flowing & balancing within wholenergy

10. BEING PRESENT & flexible in focus of attention herenow, in past or future to come, from experience, goals, results

11. BEING RESPONSIBLE for self causes & effects, now giving & getting, positive & negative effects in bodymind health.

12. RELAXING & ENJOYING lifenergy, playing & working in open harmony with others, growing love influences