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  1. Why did Michael Stipe shave his head? Has he always been bald?
  2. Hmmm, there was a concert date suddenly added to the end of the 1989 Green Tour, and it was called the LEAF benefit, what gives?
  3. Yea, I saw the setlist for the LEAF benefit show and it was a little strange, what was going through their minds?
  4. During some of the bootleg shows Stipe says the word "Chesnutt" as an introduction to some songs, what does that mean?
  5. Are any of the boys married? If so who, and who to?
  6. Do any of the band members have children?
  7. Do any of the band members have a favorite or least favorite song of theirs?
  8. Is Bill Berry playing the drums on the 11th Untitled song on the Green album?
  9. Was Mike Mills with a nude girl on top of a watertower?
  10. How long has R.E.M. been in the music business?
  11. Okay, Michael Stipe hasn't married yet, but has he ever had anyone serious?
  12. Where did Bill experience his head ordeal during the Monster Tour in '95?
  13. I heard somewhere about the "Bingo Hand Job" performance, what the heck is this all about?
  14. Why did Bill Berry leave the band?
  15. Everyone makes a mistake now and then, but does R.E.M., one of the best Rock & Roll bands of all time, make mistakes?
  16. What was R.E.M.'s first song?
  17. During the "Pop Song '89" video Michael's nipples are covered up, what's this all about?
  18. What are some of the guy's favorite bands or singers?
  19. Do other bands and Actors/Actresses like to listen to R.E.M.'s music? If so, which ones?
  20. I heard that Microsoft wanted "It's the End of the World as we know it" for the Windows 95 commercial, but R.E.M. didn't take the offer, why?
  21. I have noticed small dinosaurs lined up together at the concerts, what the heck are these, and what do they mean?
  22. Did Michael Stipe really have something wrong with him around the age of 2?
  23. Michael often mentions "vomit songs", what does he mean by this?
  24. The guys look very comfortable during the "Man on the Moon" video. Why?
  25. Did Michael and Natalie Merchant have a lovers relationship in the past?
  26. Is Michael bi-sexual or gay?
  27. During the 1998 performances Michael moves his hands in a very strange way, is there something wrong with him?
  28. Have any of R.E.M.'s family members been a part of the music scene, and have they ever been interviewed? What about pictures of them?
  29. I've seen a commercial for IBM and they sing the R.E.M. song "Superman", what's up?
  30. Does Michael Stipe smoke?
  31. What do Michael's two sisters, Lynda and Cyndy do for a living?
  32. Mike Mills has a guitar pick that says "Mr. Meat Science" on it. What is this all about?
  33. What is Mike Mill's handicap in the game of Golf?
  34. I heard that R.E.M. were going to break up in the year 2000, what gives?
  35. I have heard about references to "Flagpole", what exactly is Flagpole?
  36. Why does Michael always have a music stand next to him when he performs?
  37. What is Michael wearing in his ear during concerts?
  38. What is Michael Stipe's shoe size?
  39. Does the band listen to their albums on a regular basis?
  40. What do some of the band members do right before they appear on stage?
  41. What is the R.E.M. "One in the Eye" wooden box set?
  42. "I ate the Lotus" seems like a very strange line in a song, where did it come from?
  43. Has Michael ever played any instruments along with the other guys in the band?
  44. There is something about the R.E.M. song "Everybody Hurts" that some might not know, what is it?
  45. Most of the R.E.M. album titles seem rather "odd", is there a good story behind any of them?
  46. What is a typical Stipe family Christmas like?
  47. Have you, Darren (the webmaster), ever met the band?
  48. Who did the haunting backup vocals on 1994's "Bang and Blame?"
  49. Do any of the band members like sports?
  50. Did you know...
  51. I am thinking about visiting Athens, GA but I don't know where or what to visit?
  52. When did Mike Mills start his interest in becoming a musician?
  53. What are the favorite albums of the three band members?
  54. What is up with the title "Man Size Wreath" anyway?

Why did Michael Stipe shave his head? Has he always been bald?

Around 1990 Michael started losing his hair. For some odd reason it was falling out, so he would wear hats to cover up his loss of hair. In 1994, because most of his hair was falling out at an alarming rate, he shaved his head. In 1989 Michael cut his own hair, and according to him it was way out of control; he wasn't sure what to do with it at that point in time.

Michael Stipe singing in concert.

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Hmmm, there was a concert date suddenly added to the end of the 1989 Green Tour, and it was called the LEAF benefit, what gives?

At the last minute R.E.M. decided to hold a benefit concert in Atlanta for some of Athen's foundations. A U.S. Senator was present to witness probably one of R.E.M.'s all time best performances.

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Yea, I saw the setlist for the LEAF benefit show and it was a little strange, what was going through their minds?

R.E.M. performed the entire Murmur record and Green record live! Yes, every song from each album was performed with incredible energy. "Low" from the "Out of Time" album was also performed. ( And, according to one source, after the first three songs the audience caught on! )

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During some of the bootleg shows Stipe says the word "Chesnutt" as an introduction to some songs, what does that mean?

Either "Chestnutt" is referring to another singer, Vic Chesnutt who has been an inspiration to R.E.M. and other artists, alike, or, he is saying that the song is one of the first they have written or one that hasn't been performed in a long time.

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Are any of the boys married? If so who, and who to?

Drummer Bill Berry had been married the longest, and his wife's name was Mary. He divorced in 1997. Next to get married was guitarist Peter Buck. His wife's name is Stephanie. Guitarist Mike Mills, and Michael Stipe have yet to be wed.

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Do any of the band members have children?

Yes. Peter Buck has two twin girls that are about 8 years old as of the year 2002 and growing. Their names are Zoey and Zelda. Rumors say that Mike Mills has a son named Julian, and he is about 10 years old as of 1999. I have not confirmed this. This was announced during the 1999 summer world tour. Scott has a daughter and is married to a nice (and very talented) women named Christie McWilson who heads the band "The Picketts".

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Do any of the band members have a favorite or least favorite song of theirs?

Michael Stipe has said these to be his favorite songs: "Get Up", "Fall on Me", "Country Feedback", "New Test Leper", "Low Desert", "Electrolite", and "Walk Unafraid". Michael doesn't care much for the way his voice sounds on "I Remember California". Stipe also hates the song "Dream (All I have to do)". Bill Berry likes "Talk about the Passion", and hates "Hairshirt". Both Peter Buck and Mike Mills like "Country Feedback" and "Losing My Religion". Peter is really partial to "Perfect Circle" and "Sweetness Follows", but doesn't care much for " The Sidewinder Sleeps Tonight", as Mike Mills is partial to "Nightswimming", and "At My Most Beautiful".

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Is Bill Berry playing the drums on the 11th Untitled song on the Green album?

NO! Peter Buck is playing! Bill refused to play the drums because of it being hard to keep the beat the whole way through the song. Peter also provides backup vocals on the fan club single "See No Evil".

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Was Mike Mills with a nude girl on top of a watertower?

YES! In fact he was arrested for converting with a naked women on a watertower in Athens. The song "Time after Time" recollects this event.

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How long has R.E.M. been in the music business?

R.E.M. have been together for a very long time, let's say over 18 years.

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Okay, Michael Stipe hasn't married yet, but has he ever had anyone serious?

Yes. Stipe went out with a girl named "Caroline" for awhile, in fact she appeared in "The One I Love" video. He has also had relationships with other men and woman, respectively.

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Where did Bill experience his head ordeal during the Monster Tour in '95?

Lausanne Switzerland on March 1st 1995.

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I heard somewhere about the "Bingo Hand Job" performance, what the heck is this all about?

R.E.M. performed in London back in 1991 on their Small Venue Tour. They wanted to get into the Borderline club and play around music wise, you know have fun and not really care about being professional. So R.E.M. decided to keep their performance low key to the public and call themselves a different name, thus "Bingo Hand Job". As it turned out though, word got out that BHJ was actually R.E.M.! To make a real long story short people were paying up to $1,000 for tickets to the show!

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Why did Bill Berry leave the band?

Sadly, Bill Berry, drummer for R.E.M. decided to call it quits with the long time running band. He has stated that he is ready for a life change and is ready to continue on with his life doing something other than music. He has said that he is tired of the endless touring, the press, and the grueling process of making albums. He also didn't want to put 50% into the work on the next album. Bill has said that he has been contemplating leaving the band for a while. R.E.M. will continue ahead even though this puts a heavy damper on their spirits. They will not get a replacement drummer and Bill will continue to be close friends with the rest of the band. This terrible news struck on October 30th during an R.E.M. conference, and shocked the music world as it did the rest of the world. The band did mention that Bill has thought this through and they respect his wishes. The music band "Radiohead" has mentioned their sadness, so we will have to carry on without "tub pounder" Bill. Again, Bill played drums and did backup vocals for the band.

Bill Berry picture circa the 80's.

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Everyone makes a mistake now and then, but does R.E.M., one of the best Rock & Roll bands of all time, make mistakes?

Yes! In fact when the Monster tour got underway in early 1995, Mike Mills would sit down at his well-equipped keyboard to start playing "Strange Currencies". But, instead of playing this, he would hit the Mellotron setting for "I Don't Sleep I Dream". Also Bill Berry once started to play the drum intro to "ITEOTWAWKI", but was supposed to be playing the intro to "Finest Worksong"! Luckily Peter Buck hit the notes to Worksong and Bill recovered.

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What was R.E.M.'s first song?

"Gardening at Night" was their first real song. "Wolves, Lower" was also one of their first.

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During the "Pop Song '89" video Michael's nipples are covered up, what's this all about?

Originally the girls that appear in this video were completely topless, but when the video was aired on the MTV music network all of the girl's nipples had to be block out. So Stipe took it as a joke and figured that a nipple was a nipple and had his blocked out with the rest.

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What are some of the guy's favorite bands or singers?

Michael Stipe - likes Patti Smith, Radiohead, Spacehog, Tori Amos, Gang of Four, the Cranberries, among others. Bill Berry - Always has and always will love Jefferson Airplane. Peter Buck - The Troggs, Radiohead, Gang of Four, among several others.

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Do other bands and Actors/Actresses like to listen to R.E.M.'s music? If so, which ones?

Lots of other bands enjoy R.E.M.'s music, like Radiohead, Sting, Smashing Pumpkins, the Cranberries, Counting Crows, and 10,000 Maniacs just to name a few. Some actresses enjoy R.E.M.'s music such as Neve Cambell, Courtney Cox, Meg Ryan, Susan Surrandon, and Kim Basinger.

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I heard that Microsoft® wanted "It's the End of the World as we know it" for the Windows® 95 commercial, but R.E.M. didn't take the offer, why?

R.E.M. simply responded "Our songs are not for sale".

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I have noticed small dinosaurs lined up together at the concerts, what the heck are these, and what do they mean?

Peter Buck bought these creature toys 15 years ago at a Goodwill store in North Carolina. They have been spiritual totems that have brought the band good luck since the recording of Murmur, their first studio recorded album. They are with them every time they record a new album or when they are on stage during a tour. According to the band they've been there since the very beginning, and tend to remind the band why they're doing what they're doing in the first place. One is called 'Left' and the other called 'Right'.*

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Did Michael Stipe really have something wrong with him around the age of 2?

Yes. He had severe "Scarlet Fever" which he describes and mentions in their song "I Believe".

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Michael often mentions "vomit songs", what does he mean by this?

These songs come pouring out of him when he goes to write a lyric. They just flow from his brain and onto the paper with no hesitation. He already knows what he wants to write about and does not have to think any further on the subject matter that the song is representing.

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The guys look very comfortable during the "Man on the Moon" video. Why?

Mike Mills loves to play pool, which he is doing in the video, and Peter Buck used to be a bartender so he was also enjoying playing that particular role. Bill drives big machines on his farm so he was heppy driving a monster truck, and Stipe likes to wander around places and likes to wear cowboy hats. :) By the way, the "Man on the Moon" video is their favorite video to watch.

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Did Michael and Natalie Merchant have a lovers relationship in the past?

Yes. After some time passed, after they first met, they had a loving relationship. Enough said.

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Is Michael bi-sexual or gay?

In many recent interviews Michael has mentioned that he is bi-sexual and that he doesn't care to be labeled as such. He usually either has either a boyfriend or a girlfriend. He mentioned in an interview once that he realized his orientation when he was 19.

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During the 1998 performances Michael moves his hands in a very strange way, is there something wrong with him?

No. He picked up this habit from semi-punk rocker Patti Smith, that is very animated when performing on stage. He claims that it helps him keep the beat and stay focused.

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Have any of R.E.M.'s family members been a part of the music scene, and have they ever been interviewed? What about pictures of them?

Mike Mills's mom has been the most active with the band. She performed with the band in New York City on the '95 tour. She has also been a part of some interviews. In September of 2001 Mike's father, Frank Mills, passed away. He was 65 years old. He was a noted singer and US Marine Corps pilot. Best wishes for him and the rest of the family. Stipe shared some pictures of himself and his family when he was younger. There are also pictures of his sister and him in the old Athens days. The other family members have pretty much stayed out of touch with the music scene and the band as far as publicity goes.

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I've seen a commercial for IBM and they sing the R.E.M. song "Superman", what's up?

This caused a lot of problems with R.E.M. fans. However, the song is actually a cover, and R.E.M. only own rights to "their" version of the song.

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Does Michael Stipe smoke?

Yes. He usually rolls his own cigs. The brand he uses is natural and he stated that it does not hurt his voice.

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What do Michael's two sisters, Lynda and Cyndy do for a living?

Lynda is a carpenter and a musician, while Cyndi teaches deaf children at a local school.

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Mike Mills has a guitar pick that says "Mr. Meat Science" on it. What is this all about?

Here is what Mike has to say about it: "That's from a show in Madison, Wisconsin, which we played in a pig barn. The horticultural barn. The livestock pavilion if you will... And I took a sign that said 'Mr Meat Science' and I stuck it on my amp, and its been there ever since.

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What is Mike Mill's handicap in the game of Golf?

A respectable 15.

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I heard that R.E.M. were going to break up in the year 2000, what gives?

One of the band members, back in the early 90's, told a magazine that they were going to break up in the year 2000. Of course they were joking, but the people with the magazine took it seriously and brought about the vicious rumor. The joking band member wishes that it never came about, but once the media heard of it there was no turning back! The fans and the band still joke about it today.

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I have heard about references to "Flagpole", what exactly is Flagpole?

Flagpole is a local Athens-based newspaper that features stories about R.E.M. from time to time, as well as general local news about recent events and happenings.

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Why does Michael always have a music stand next to him when he performs?

Michael has a hard time remembering the lyrics to their songs. Especially when he is singing "a song from 1412" as he likes to call them. Once Michael commented that the lyrics don't make sense, so he needed a music stand for them!

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What is Michael wearing in his ear during concerts?

This earpiece is there so that Michael can hear his voice clearly. It is not an earplug. It is directly attached to the soundboard and speakers. It is to help him hear his voice and it is there to help him sing on key.

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What is Michael Stipe's shoe size?

10.

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Does the band listen to their albums on a regular basis?

Mike Mills has stated that he doesn't listen to them much, but Peter has said that he likes to listen to them a lot. Michael does occasionally listen, and smiles when he hears an album playing in a store, etc.

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What do some of the band members do right before they appear on stage?

Peter claims he gets really nervous and, according to Michael, can't stop using the toilet! Mike Mills usually walks around aimlessly, checking out the opening act on occasion. Mike says that he goes on with a "nervous energy" and it is really just similiar to "riding a bike".

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What is the R.E.M. "One in the Eye" wooden box set?

First off, this is not the very popular "Automatic Box" set. It is a wooden box, colored green, with the Green, Out of Time, Automatic for the People, and Monster albums. It also comes with a key chain, a grey cap, and t-shirt. It carries a very hefty price tag (up to $300) and can be found around the Internet or some record stores. It is a true R.E.M. collector's treasure. It seems to be a very rare find, so if you are a big collector be sure to get your hands on a copy if you spot one.

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"I ate the Lotus" seems like a very strange line in a song, where did it come from?

There is a clothing store located in R.E.M.'s hometown of Athens, GA named "The Lotus Eaters". The store has a very large front window that shows a reflection, hence the line "store front window I reflect", and the song "Lotus".

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Has Michael ever played any instruments along with the other guys in the band?

Michael started playing the accordion when he was very young. He has played the harmonica and guitar but mostly just does the singing.

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There is something about the R.E.M. song "Everybody Hurts" that some might not know, what is it?

Peter Buck once said that there was a line in the original song lyrics, that stated "When everything is wrong, everybody hurts, even the singer of the song." These words never made it to the final draft.^

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Most of the R.E.M. album titles seem rather "odd", is there a good story behind any of them?

Yes. The title "Out of Time" came about because the band was literally 'out of time' when it came to coming up with an album title! The title "Up" came about when one of the band members saw the word "UP!" on a box sitting in the office, thus the album title came about.

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What is a typical Stipe family Christmas like?

According to Michael, they open presents and give each other gifts, then sit down for a big dinner with the whole family.

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Have you, Darren (the webmaster), ever met the band?

Yes. All of the band members are very nice and are easy to get along with. It is always a pleasure to talk with them.

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Who did the haunting backup vocals on 1994's "Bang and Blame?"

One of the backup singers is Michael's own sister Lynda Stipe.

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Do any of the band members like sports?

Michael didn't like football very much but apparently played football in and/or post High School. Mike and Bill love to golf, and there are rumors that Peter likes to bowl? - Not sure about that one.

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Did you know...

That the music for "Losing My Religion" was written in five minutes, and the lyrics were done within the hour... That the song "Fretless" was left off of Out of Time...That the words for the song "Nightswimming" came before the music, a first for the band...stay tuned for more..

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I am thinking about visiting Athens, GA but I don't know where or what to visit?

Some good places to go are: Weaver D's (tell them you are there for R.E.M. reasons), Wuxtry Record store, 40 Watt Club, the site of the old church, and downtown.

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When did Mike Mills start his interest in becoming a musician?

He started playing piano when he was 14, and then started playing the bass and guitar within a year or two after that. Mike has said that he knew that he would always be playing music, however he didn't expect that he would get paid for it.

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What are the favorite albums of the three band members?

Michael's is New Adventures in Hi-Fi, Mike's is Automatic for the People, and Peter's favorite is the 'A' side of Document.

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What is up with the title "Man Size Wreath" anyway?

Michael based this song on an actual event, and actually googled the title to make sure that it hadn't been used before.

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* Some of this information came from the "Creative Loafing Charlotte" website, from the news article "Talk About The Passion", on 2.05.03 , written by Tim C. Davis.
^ This information was obtained from "The Complete Guide to the Music of R.E.M.", written by Peter Hogan.

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