NATURAL BONDING EXPERIENCES
growing UP with totalove at home
by micheal sunandaDo we have animal instincts in our body at birth? like most animals do bonding with parents, especially mother & nature that support us. Are you having your instincts alive functioning now? immediatly responding to inner & outer changes & needs? All mammels bond with mothers nursing them, even whales & dolfins must support babies, or else they'll die.
Our bonding with parents effects our whole life connecting with other humans, animals & plants, our needs for parents loving support, contact & love is critical from birth to 7 years, for growing naturally in balance, with skills & awareness. Instincts are inborn, but need support & contact at fazes of growth like: breathing, nursing, touching, sleeping, healing, playing, elimination (toilet) training, choosing & eating solid foods, crawling, climbing, standing, walking & talking, our main early instincts needs to grow organically in harmony.
How much immediate contact with get with mother at birth, home & mother nature influences our health in childhood & maturing, co-caused by our astrological natal birth-chart is a karma map of causes, effects & potentials. Most babies are born with stress, unless a simple, blissful & natural birth. So we need to heal the birth trama, including mothers stress soon after birth. Thats why many babies sleep so long after birth, get sick or cry, to heal the stress of whole pregnancy & delivery, especially if in hospital. Even animals born indoors, in boxes & bed have birth stress they must heal to grow naturally. Many such clinical births simply don't heal it up enuf to grow healthy, is common with hospital born druged humans, babies who have colic & tramatized mothers with 'post partum depression'.
Our instincts function from DNA triggered needs & responces = natural responsibility, we must feel to use, intuitively deeply trusting our feeling herenowwith natural energy changes moment to moment. Instincts are designed to respond immediatly to polarities: hot/cold, thirst or burning, to get wet, warm or cooled down, so body temp & water levels can balance blood, hormones & immunity health. Its instinctual to love naked babies organic functions, but not with fear of poop pee smells/dirt, crying & mucus healing are essential to loving growth as we explore extremes to learn needs & limits of universe locally.
We evolve with nature, unless we're insolated & protected from natures raw cycles. The local weather can impact, teach & bless us outdoors, connecting to its energy flows. We gradually shift our natural bonds from mothers heart/brest to natures 4 magic elements of air, fire, water & earth, science call: oxygen/wind, nitrogen/combustion, water hydrogen & earth/carbon. We must sense these directly here now to feel our needs for balance, purity & learning with skill.
A great challenge is to feel toxins to avoid or eliminate from body energy fields by moving, puking, pooping, voicing, crying out pain, running, sweating or breathing, are healing naturally. Even fasting works to purify body biochemistry, as many kids won't eat if they're sick, just taking fluids to clean out toxins. Childrens' naturally reflex to pollution that stresses them is a mystery to most parents unaware of toxic causes of diseases. So they treat it with medicine to stop the natural elimination(like womens monthly bleeding) needed to purity for healthy. That's why natural diets & herbs can heal many diseases & allergies so commonly in cities now.
Birth imprinting experiences deeply effect our relation- ships lifelong, unless we can heal the birth trama we suffered. Like premature or late birth, C-section, forceps, drugs, induced labor, delayed labor, heavy fears or stress(medical or family) can hurt our health immediatly & years later. These cause & effect dynamics were found & revealed in Birth & Relationships at great book by Sondra Ray(a Rebirther) explaining how birthing lasts lifelong, until we heal it reclaim our free-will. Other sources explain how bonding need cycles for nursing, touching, massage, playing, nature contacts, etc all effect our natural growth, that most city babies & hi-tech family lack now, perhaps seeking natural solutions to health problems. More prebirth & baby bonding info is in R.D.Laings The Facts of Life & Voice of Experience books are deep imprinting patterns that effect all of us around our birth.
Some of the basic needs of humans, proved by organic family life, much reseach & loving babies instincts inside. However overeducated (indoors) we lack sensitive to feel it,maybe even threated by 'bad' weather, that can inspire us, by challenging our fears, to feel & expand beyond old limits.en threated by 'bad' weather, that can inspire us, by challenging our